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THE HATE/PRESSURE THAT COMES WITH BEING SUCCESSFUL

THE HATE/PRESSURE THAT COMES WITH BEING SUCCESSFUL

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I DON’T THINK THERE’S ONE PERSON GROWING UP THINKING: I’D RATHER NOT BE SUCCESSFUL. I’D RATHER LIVE LIFE AS IT COMES AND JUST LET IT BE AS IT GOES.

THE PROBLEM ABOUT BEING SUCCESSFUL IS, THE MORE YOU ARE GETTING TO THAT ROUTE, THE HARDER IT GETS. AS YOU GAIN MORE EXPOSURE AND BECOME MORE OUT THERE BECAUSE OF THE HARD WORK THAT YOU DO, THE TARGET ON YOUR BACK GETS BIGGER. I BELIEVE THAT SOCIAL MEDIA MAKE SUCCESSFUL EVEN HARDER. IT’S SO EASY TO SIT BEHIND A COMPUTER OR YOUR PHONE AND PURPOSELY THROW JABS AT OTHERS THINKING THAT IT’S OK TO DO SO.

I HAD TO SIT BACK FOR A FEW MINUTES BEFORE I WROTE THIS POST TO THINK ABOUT WHAT COULD BE THE MAIN REASON OR REASONS SOME PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO HATE SO MUCH ON SOMEONE WHO IS ALREADY SUCCESSFUL OR WORKING TOWARDS THEIR SUCCESS. I CAME UP WITH A FEW THOUGHTS; AGAIN MAYBE I COULD BE WRONG BUT THEY ARE JUST RANDOM THOUGHTS OF MINE WONDERING IN MY HEAD.

COULD IT BE THAT THOSE PEOPLE ARE ENVIOUS. WE SEE IT ALL THE TIME. EVEN DEALING WITH FAMILIES, THEY GET ENVIOUS OF OTHERS FOR HAVING SOMETHING THAT THEY DO NOT HAVE, FOR BEING ABLE TO DO SOMETHING THAT THEY CANNOT DO. THE SECOND THING THAT CAME TO MIND IS MIRRORING. BY THAT I MEAN, SOME PEOPLE CANNOT ACCEPT WHAT HAPPEN IN THEIR OWN LIFE, THEY WILL TRY TO COME HARD AT THE PERSON WORKING HARD TOWARDS BUILDING THEIR SUCCESS JUST TO PROTECT THEIR OWN EGOS.

IT’S ALWAYS EASIER TO POINT OUT THE FINGER, I MEAN, IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF THEM. LIKE I SAID FROM A PREVIOUS POST I WROTE AND I HOPE YOU GUYS READ IT; IF NOT, WELL!!! (SMILING) YOU MIGHT WANT TO READ IT (GREATNESS)… HANG AROUND PEOPLE WITH THE SAME MINDSET AS YOU. YOU WILL ALWAYS FIND SOMEONE NOT LIKING WHAT YOU DO BUT YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO KEEP IN MIND: YOU’RE DOING IT FOR YOU, FOR YOUR SATISFACTION AND FOR THE SATISFACTION OF THOSE WHO WILL APPRECIATE IT AS WELL…

SUCCESS COMES WITH A LOT OF HARD WORK, A LOT OF PAIN, A LOT OF HATE. YOU JUST HAVE TO LEARN TO IGNORE AND MOVE PAST EVERYTHING AND MOVE FORWARD… ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND ” WORK HARD IN SILENCE AND LET YOUR SUCCESS MAKE THE NOISE”

#MUCHLOVE #TAM

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  1. Finally got a chance to break for lunch and read this. Mimi, I think you are correct in your reasoning about why others hate on those that are either succeeding or working hard at it…you did it again…I love the way you express and share those thoughts with us. thank you for that!

    The quotes were on point…it took lots of restraining for me not to print them all and post them around the office…but I did save them all on my phone for quick reminders…

    thank you!!!!! keep them coming

  2. Girl! I’m afraid of what comes with the title of being successful mostly in the States. Exactly what you touched on. The hate gets real instead of working on their own thing and wait on their timing or changing their circle for their betterment, they will hate on and start things that weren’t even there. Keep on doing your thing and watch the non sense fall out.

  3. You hit the hammer right on the head, my motto is “What’s for me will always be for me” no matter what, the good and the bad. God make no mistakes, regardless my success will reign๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

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